Trust is like a huge 8000 piece jigsaw.
It takes time and there is trouble if even one piece is missing.
Just remember it is ok to ask someone to help find that missing piece. …. And that could be fun
Peace and harmony to all
LoneWolf
A poignant song to reflect on today. Because you’re beautiful by Toni Childs.
I thought of you when i heard it this morning
Peace and harmony to all
LoneWolf
What a huge bond to be broken! What a shock to realise that your mothers love was not unconditional?
Most our parents were a product of their own story and the majority of the time, the wounds that resulted from childhood were not intentional, however the damage is hard to spot, and non the less real.
Check out this article Unloved daughters and the dance of denial.
Peace and harmony to all
LoneWolf
Emotions are just our reaction to our own thoughts.
Peace and harmony to all
LoneWolf
Please be patient while my IT guys undertake a little security maintenance on my blog. In the meantime, you can still see what I am up to on my Twitter account, Facebook or Google plus.
Peace and harmony to all
Lone Wolf
I have just added Psychology Today to my Resources and Courses page. Check it out.
Peace and harmony to all
Lone Wolf
The past is not our friend …. It has nothing to offer … Lets live each day with the awe that comes with no expectations or limitations.
Peace and harmony to all
Lone Wolf
How do you react when you discover that a loved one has lied to you?
I was raised to believe that all lies are bad and the only reason someone would lie, would be for dishonest reasons…..
It makes me laugh that at 50 odd years old…. I am now learning to look at lies differently.
Whilst I have spent my life preaching that honesty is the most important thing in a relationship and that all lies are to hide something bad from you…. Iam remembering back and to my discomfit admit that I have lied to people very close to me. These lies where ‘lies by omission’, but none the less they were lies. They were lies to protect myself, but none the less they were lies.
So I had to decide, does that make me a bad person, or does my paradigm surrounding lies need to be re-evaluated???
Then I got it….. My lies were never with evil or dishonest intent!!!
Now I make that my new observation when I discover a lie. I ask myself ‘was it told with evil or dishonest’ intent?’
It may even be helpful to ask that question of the person who lied to you… It will help with your understanding and trust of them.
Lies don’t need to mean the destruction of trust, they can provide the platform to deepen trust.
Peace and harmony to all
Lone Wolf
Dont worry so much about ‘supposed to’ and ‘used to’
Peace and harmony to all
Lone Wolf